Just like gay clubs, this is a way to meet other gay men -- but it's not the only way. These apps typically attract guys just looking to hook up. These apps can be a community in their own nature, but they can leave you feeling rejected and lonely -- especially when a hookup or encounter doesn't turn into a meaningful friendship. very hard to meet decent loyal real down to earth guys in a bar i hate the bar scene where do you go to meet others they say try a church or a group or some kind of acrivity groups. Willie on May 12, 2018: Looking for a steady partner. I am loyal and want to be in a relationship. Please. wannanabe sissy on May 09, 2018: dont know what to do